Lil,

Now we have come full circle


You are projecting that from a HD point of view
This was the opening line in my comment regaurding your comment.

So the sitch that Mrs N hypothesized (namely that "all he wants is sex") is not the case for me, nor is it the case for many of the HDs on this board, as far as I can tell from the HD point of view from what I read.
You are saying the exact same thing I said that it is from the HD point of view.
I only disagree with this is not a problem with most people in there relationship on this board. It may not be the problem of the HD person posting here but it may be how there LD spouse feels so it is still a problem within there relationship so should not be dismissed as non existant at large.
You asked a question of LD people Mrs Nop answered and in turn asked you the same question but from a LD spin. You came from a place of how you feel being HD in a relationship with a LD. She offered you a glimpse inside of how the LD partner feels at times with having a HD partner. Every relationship here has a HD and LD partner so it is fair to say this glimpse is a reflection of alot of HD's spouses feelings at times. Her answer of a turned around question was probably the most insightful one you will get in response of your question.


As always the HD LD dynamics is a catch 22 situation.

I said as you quoted (out of context)

Actually I quoted you in context but in my reply I took out the personalization of your relationship. Since I was responding to the dismissal of what may or may not be going on in other relationships of HD people on the board.

Hope you had a nice day and enjoy a wonderful evening!