GGB is correct I was speaking of the spouses of the HD people of the board. And while yes I agree most of the HD seem content with other aspects of there relationship other then sex and frequency and need to feel desired it does not mean that there S or the LD partner feels that same way.
No question about it-- I would cease to feel special or loved if ALL he wanted was sex. That is not a problem in this R, nor in many of the Rs on this board
But what I was truely addressing was the I would cease to feel special or loved if all he wanted was sex. This is not a problem in many of the relationships on this board.
How do you know that Lil you nor myself know how the spouses of people here feel. They may feel like all that is wanted of them is sex. They may not feel like all is satisfactory within there relationships other then the sexual frequency. You dismissed this as being a reason for problems for most HDs here but yet you do not know how they feel about there M how the pressure or percieved pressure makes them feel about there spouse or marriage. I believe that was the point of MRS NOP'S question in reverse to you was to point out that what one person in a relationship feels about the relationship is not always the way the other person feels about it. She was telling you to take a look from the other side I do believe. And I am sure she will correct me if I am wrong
