Lil,

H sends a Valentine's bouquet to me AND his best friend who is gay and disabled. The bouquet to his friend is from "both of us" and is labeled that way. H feels that this man is lonely with no significant other and a fervent desire to settle down with some nice man. This man is a very good man and they have been friends for a long time and have helped each other through a lot. The bouquet is a tradition but it still bothers me.

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the Woman of His Dreams. Wow! It would be so cool if he would say that: that I am the Woman of His Dreams! BUT if he said that, and then still never touched me... that's crazy-making stuff, for sure.

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Just change the never touched me to rarely touches me and sometimes indifferently touches me and that's exactly where we are - crazy making.

And no it isn't "just about sex" but it certainly is about sexual tension or sexual connection while doing the mundane tasks of life.

Karen



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