Cemar, Speaking on behalf of my LD spouse, he loves only me in a romantic sense. That, along with sex, is what makes our R unique in his eyes. But it is the love that is paramount to that "uniqueness", for him.
He is much more about feelings and less about actions. That is, his feelings of love are what make this R special. For me, it is what I DO that makes it unique to me..the feelings are only the facilitator to the actions. His thinking is the opposite of this. His feeling of love is what he values most about this R, not necessarily the actions that are involved.
