karen1 and Lillieperl:

I agree 100% with what both of you are saying. Marriage are to be UNIQUE relationships above all others. From a HD perspective, it is SEX that elevates your relationship to that level. I am curious though if any LD's out there could give their perspective on this. Is there something that they do/want that elevates a relationship to this level in their terms? What is it that a LD does for their spouse/relationship that they do not do with anyone else, that morally/ethically/religously can ONLY be done with their spouse?