I do believe my H has some fantasies, but I also could tell by the look on his face he'd been trying to think of something wild. I also know our C believes he's holding sexual thoughts, actions back too....she's stated this in front of both of us.....my gut says he's afraid to do something because he doesn't trust he won't be hurt like he has in the past. Only time will tell if I'm right, if he'll suck it up and get past that.
