What I mean is that we could take this topic off forum and support each other by email. Some folks aren't comfortable with this. When I said by PM, I was thinking of some other forum, because on some forums there is a capability to put up a topic and invite one, or maybe more to join in without it being seen by everyone on the forum.
I considered this, as we seem to be having similar problems, but since we are different people, the views we have might help us understand our spouses in a better way.
