It is possible your W was able to honestly fill out the 5LL questionnaire that quickly....some people can do this. I guess what it really made me wonder though is this...did she fill out the questionnaire by simply choosing the answers that popped out at her (by gut instinct) or does she really know why she picked her answers?
I'm able to fill something like the 5LL questionnaire out fairly quickly too, initially....by picking out the key words I feel are important, but that's usually because I'll see an answer and think "yeah, ok that'll work" but with the intimacy needs below there's a bit more thought required....I had to think "why" am I choosing this over that and why would my H choose this over that?
