I posted some questions a bit back in a post called 10 Key Intimacy Questions it's a post our C gave us. In this you are supposed to pick your top 3, rank them in order and then do the same for your spouse....if she'd be willing to answer those questions, since she was willing to do the questionnaire in 5LL's, it might direct you better to her actual LL's. There are subtle differences in the questions, but they make a difference....and it takes awhile to really put some thought into them to truly answer them. I question how seriously she tood the questionnaire you gave her if she completed it in 10 minutes.
