OK. I've eluded to this fact in a few other posts, but not yet given it center stage type attention, which I would like to do now. Six weeks ago, when I took the 30 question questionaire in the back of the 5LL book I came up, no surprise here, Physical touch dominant and Words of Affirmation next highest priority in the 5LL. Next I gave the book to my W somewhat blindsightedly to her, asking for her to take the W's questionaire. She shocked me by agreeing to do so, and did it. Her results, only 10 minutes or so later were tabulated without any sort of fudging, exactly balanced evenly between all 5LL. This was even more of a shock to me.
The questions that I'd like to open up for discussion are, has anyone else experienced this result in their R? or how about, has anyone experienced results where 3 or 4 of the categories are matched as equal or close to equal?
All I can get out of this experience is that I need to speak to her in all 5LL. I am willing to do this but for example, I don't know what quality time would be to her, except maybe being there to help her with anything that is on her agenda, like redecorating our bedroom. Yet to me, quality time would be discussing our R in a relaxed, non-threatening way. Also in another thread I mentioned, regarding gift giving, part of perfection would be knowing what gifts I should buy her for her birthday, anniversary, and Christmas. She wants me to figure it out.
I understand giving out WOA, AOS, and PT, and I'm doing OK with those.
Anyone willing to jump in here and lend me a hand?
