WB, Honey I am so sorry. H's response seems pretty indicative that the aliens still have control over him. Maybe this is the time to go dark for a while. Reclaim your self. Look at what you want from life. And move forward.
Don't contact him unless it is something you feel comfortable with. Let the machine/voicemail take your calls for a while. Cry your heart out, and let it all out. This is a lot of stuff to put up with all those months.
I do think there are positives still in your R. But obviously the aliens still have a large hold on your H. In your heart ask yourself is this how H would have replied to you if he was the man he was before this all started? If the answer is no, then you know you are still dealing with alien forces.
Remember to breath. Take care, and come here to vent, vent, vent.
