I have been catching up with your thread over the last couple of days and I have to say that I admire your courage and the way you manage to be up beat in every single interaction with your H.
Thanks for your support on my thread. It means a lot.
I read through your note and I liked it! As the WAS, I think it is important that you do show you want to work on the R, maybe a little persuing as well as drawing in would be a good option, so this letter fits the bill.
I was wondering if it would help if you mentioned how your attitude to the R has changed, because H really seemed to notice when you talked about the situation with Refugee Mum and her decision to move away..?
And if I was you I would write more about the fact that you would bought be having a new R, rather than resurrecting the old R...
If nothing else, this will give H's ego a boost and even that's OK!
