Quote: because I think if we had that discussion we would both have to agree it's not.
Here I am, don't start the rumors yet!
I think this seems to be one of the biggest challenges/frustrations facing many of us...and that is how do we let our S know that we still love them and wish to make our Rs work without violating DB principles. I think we get fearful that if we DB too perfectly our S's will think that we are done with them and even if in the back of their minds they may want to reconcile, they themselves lose hope.
Anyone have an answer to that?
WB, your H is like my W-ambivilent. That is in fact a good thing. It sounds like there is plenty of hope in your sitch, hang in there.
