I guess it is OK to admit here that it's sad hey? I work so hard, 24/7, on detaching, GAL, smiling, being happy - that when the sadness hits I get scared it will overwhelm me. It won't though. I've survived this long - one silly anniversary isn't going to knock me over.

In some ways it's funny. He never remembered anniversaries and I suspect today is no different. Celebrate anniversary - or get a pest certificate? It's all just semantics really!!!

I think I might invest in a bottle of wine to enjoy with my dinner tonight. I'm going to celebrate that I survived another day, happy in my work, enjoying my life, having a good hair day - they are all cause for celebration. Maybe the pest man will be good looking - there'll be something else to celebrate!!

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.