WB, you are doing so well. H is reaching out to you, and you were dressed to kill and mysterious. Gotta feel good about that. I think you used the lunch thing to your advantage.A scary move granted, but I should think it will work in your behaviour. Especially as you have shown that you are not worried about OW, even though she is worried about you. I esp like how told H you were concerned it may be awkward for him. Cos it wouldn't be awkward for you now you are Ms DBer ~ you can take anything in your stride. I am sure after that conversation, he was definately thinking about the strong confident woman he left, rather than the insecure woman he's currently with.