WB, you are doing so well. H is reaching out to you, and you were dressed to kill and mysterious. Gotta feel good about that.
I think you used the lunch thing to your advantage.A scary move granted, but I should think it will work in your behaviour. Especially as you have shown that you are not worried about OW, even though she is worried about you. I esp like how told H you were concerned it may be awkward for him. Cos it wouldn't be awkward for you now you are Ms DBer ~ you can take anything in your stride. I am sure after that conversation, he was definately thinking about the strong confident woman he left, rather than the insecure woman he's currently with.

Keep up the great work


Smile, it makes people wonder what you are up to!