Walking Back, seems to me like H is definately interested. Your DBing must be paying off. That is great that you have identified an area where you can relate. I too wonder about the length of an affair. I had heard most end in 6 months (which to me, sounds a whole lot better than 6 months -2 yrs).I think H's has been going on now for 6 months, but I think it will last longer as I think it still is a big secret from most people. I think that is one reason to keep DBing (even when you've had enough) as you just don't know what is really going on in their situation. It does sound as though your H is taking baby steps with reconnecting though. Keep doing what you're doing as it's obviously working
