The other thing I've been wondering is, how statistically accurate is the most affairs end in 6 months to 2 years?
I agree about the time thing. My H is in similar R. They live together, but he has 1/2 his stuff here, 1/4 with her, and 1/4 in the back of the store he owns. His business partner says he knows that my H often stays there at the store.
Then there is the time he spends with us. I sometimes wonder what she thinks of that. But that is a huge waste of my time.
At one point a couple months ago, I asked him something about when was she coming home. His response was "I don't know." I questioned how he could not know. He answered: I don't know what her schedule is.
