Wow WB. Great DBinbg, your reactions to OW. You really showed that you are the better person. I cannot believe how hard that would have been. I am so grateful that I haven't met mine yet, as I am not confident I would be so in control. These actions must be something that H will notice and recall at some time. He certainly seems to want the contact with you, so just keep doing what you are doing. It is working...and yes, it does beat the alternative. (although the evil Kismet, does want to go the kick and scream and make a scene route every now and then but I can usually subdue her with chocolate )
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