H came in to get the boys - OP in car in drive way. I was on the computer reading on this BB said Hi. Laughed. Said "have a good night" lovingly, honestly, painfully - and they left.

My sons are now at a restaurant 4 streets away with my husband and his partner having a beautiful fathers day dinner.

I called my sister a few minutes ago to arrange rides to the gym in the morning and told her that the boys were out with H and OP and she said "WB relax. Noone is having a good time at that dinner party tonight." and I know she's right and I know that it's going to be awkward for all of them - but it doesn't make it any easier to think about my family reforming and remaking themselves without me being a part of it.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.