Hey WB, how are you doing down under? Is your I/L family visit going well? I, and all of us, hope so.

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I honestly thought I'd be happy if I could just move out and be on my own. I didn't understand then that since my depression and "issues" were of my making, I'd be taking them with me and I'd be just as miserable, if not more so, when I was living alone with them.





Your reply to me a few days ago brought up a few more questions on my part. At what point did you realize that the depression and issues were of your making. Was there some huge epiphany or did you just wake up one morning feeling different.

Regarding you feeling like you would just be happy if…I know you have followed my sitch and feel somewhat connected to the feelings of my WAW. My theory is that she too is chasing happiness. At first she thought the A would bring her happiness, then moving out would, then filing for D would; now it is if only she could get into her own house, that will bring her happiness.

We both (all) know that will not be the case. I am just hoping she will realize this before the D goes through and things get too out of hand.

Anyway, when you have a chance between entertaining all those family members (and doing so with a big DB smile on your face ), let us know what you think and more importantly, how you are doing.

WAWfighter