I think it would be a good idea to give her a brief, chatty phone call. Sounds like she's waiting for you to give a little bit of chase ...

Remember though, no relationship talk, no sad-sack talk. Be happy, be fun, laugh, let her know you are OK. You never know, she might start thinking about what she's missing.

When I first left home my husband used to pick me up to go to the markets with a disadvantaged family that we support. It was really nice, he'd just call me on Saturday morning and say "I'm taking XX to the market this morning, want to come?" I always agreed because it was low pressure, familiar and I usually didn't have anything better to do (it's not all beer and skittles being a WAW you know!!).

Good luck. I'll check out your thread.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.