I have read your posts on some other threads and have to say thanks for the insight into a WAW. I am struggling with making contact. Question Did you want your H to keep contact with you? I went dark for 21 days and I did hear that W asking friends if they heard from me and seemed upset that I hadn't called. Thing is she had promised to call me and never did. Did finally leave a short cheery message on D25 and did mention wanting to close account by mother hadn't called me back. So I don't know when she did call if she called on her own or because D25 told her she better call. How much contact initated by me would just be showing friendship and not pursuing? I haven't seen her since July 17th. My thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/newreply.php?Cat=&Board=UBB2&Number=957721&page=0&view=collapsed&what=showflat&sb=5&o=31&fpart=all&vc=1
