Quote: Nevertheless, I'm going to take a deep breath and use this visit as a great opportunity to DB. I'm going to welcome brother in law with open arms, be happy, confident, at peace. H will no doubt spend time at the house while his brother is here and that will give me a chance to fill the house with great smells and happy feelings
WB, that is the only thing, and the exact thing, you can and should do. Remember, you are ATTRACTING! Good luck!
