OK WB, how about...

Even though you are currently apart, can you stiil call him and ask for a ride to the airport for your next trip?

Can you go golfing with him?

What I am saying is, you have IDd the issues, and you even now know the sollutions. Don't push it too hard, but maybe you can ease back into what you guys did previously.

Again, don't push too hard, remember baby steps.