Quote: ... chase our spouses or degrade the other person, we instead want to be more attractive than the other person.
Sound advice that I'm learning day by day. I know it's not about the OP. It's about me. I threw my marriage away because I didn't know what else to do. Since I've been working on me - it has been a lot easier to see his new relationship for what it is - a place he went to feel safe when I pulled the world out from under our feet. I have been very selfish. I am working on forgiving myself for that and hopefully never being that selfish woman again. Cheers
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Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
