Much of what I've read here has firmed up for me the importance of rebuilding the friendship that I have with my husband. To be honest though I find that really difficult when he lives with another woman.
I think I've detatched to the extent that I no longer want to maim her, graffiti her house or take out a full page add in a national newspaper about what a husband stealer she is - but I'm still jealous.
I rarely mention her when I'm speaking with my H and he never does any more, but she's always there, like a phantom.
How to be friends? How to reconnect in a way that can rebuild a relationship. After all I think that's what happened in the first place - we kind of grew apart and neither of us knew what to do about it.
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
