Well, he's come back to me and then left several times now in these past 3 years so I need concrete reassurance from him that he has finally decided to be my life-partner before I would have a sexual R with him.
I need to know it's different from the other times and that he permanently gives up his OW and gives me the proper R that I deserve. I will be totally upfront with him about it, because I don't want to sleep with him and then have him run off yet again and break my heart.
He has to act like a husband, and not only that, announce it to all the relatives etc. If he accepts that, he can have me. I want it to be making love, not sex.
