Well, it probably won't be 3 or 4 hours because he's got this concert, then there's a firework display on and by the time he's got home and put the kids to bed, it will be about 10.30pm and then he'd have to persuade Rose (ex-ow's 18 year old DD) to stay in the house and babysit, so I am thinking he probably meant another day some time very soon.
I definitely have to discuss OW2 with him before I allow this to progress any further. I need to know that she's gone and also that if I allow this, that he will be faithful and that he's committed, seriously committed. I want positive answers on all of these, otherwise I am not going to let him touch me again.