I do have a question for you though, my hope is that maybe we, along with others can help each other for future shall we say "tiffs or DOAs".
W and I have been getting along great, for almost two months things were moving in a positive direction.
Then some real life challenges hit us in the face again, like money issues combined with the kids misbehaving. The pressure mounted this morning when W's employer made a mistake on her paycheck, receiving only $2.50 for a paycheck. By this afternoon we had a major backslide.
In your M, in my M and many others, the stress of daily life takes over. We disagree about how to handle a child or where money is to be spent, or something that a week later seems trivial.
My question is; when we start progressing to the point of having to deal with lifes decisions how do we keep from backsliding like I did today?
In my current R with XW, if money and children are ok, so are we. XW was taking her problems out on the kids, I tried to intervene and I blew it. I don't want this to happen again. I want to learn how to handle life's challeges without it ruining the progress I have made.
