Well, I am staying put but I still have OW2 to get rid of if he makes anymore moves on me.
I said ILY because he basically asked me what my feelings were earlier in the convo and in person and I would have been lying otherwise. Also, I wanted to make it perfectly clear to him that I can see through his act of not caring. I was helping him to confront it.
This is not good DB'ing for others, but I think in my protracted sitch, things have to be confronted eventually.
He was talking really funny, like now we are the future etc, because I was discussing my book with him and how I got writer's block at the end because I didn't want to finish it as it was like losing everything altogether, and he said 'It's not lost, we've just moved on; it's all still there (love)'
And he was on about how the divorce and the custody thing and everything we've been through were necessary to help us grow as people and that 'we wouldn't have the good things we've got now without that, what we've got is a less 'needy' love.'
And he talked about putting the past behind us and facing a new future etc etc and that I shouldn't be so afraid (I don't know what he thinks I'm afraid of?).
For a man that never discusses R's, this is quite something.
I shall just have to wait and see how this pans out.
