I hope you are holding up okay. I am not the praying kind but for whatit is worth I am sending my best wishes to you. I cannot fathom the pain you must be in. You are one strong woman.
UD
The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.