Heather,

Just wanted to check in. I too am sorry that you are feeling down. Everyone here shares empathy with you.

This morning I was listening to the first KLA CD and when Michelle started talking about how one person can make effective changes quickly in their relationship, I rolled my eyes and thought "Yeah right". Maybe one person's idea of quickly is different then another's. My point is, we all have the feelings of being overburdened with being the one doing all the work. It's hard and no one will tell you different.

Take a break, read something else. BTW, do women read fiction books about anything other than relationships? (A little humor to lighten the gloom ) Read a kids book to your kids. Or take a break and read nothing at all!

I found it interesting that H thinks that you were irrational, noticed you've changed, but that you're still irrational. That doesn't make sense to me.

You're a good person for what you are doing. Take care of yourself.