Last night as I was falling asleep, I remembered that when H told me I was irrational this past year and I reacted with disbelief that he would say that(even if just for fear of messing up the progress we've made...) he kept telling me "Heather, you know it, I know you do". I think about that and then I look at the title of my thread and all at once, I *know* that I'm not crazy. He has tried to make me doubt myself, tried to paint his view as reality by disregarding my feelings and my perceptions. And it's been going on a long time, but I've been aware that I need to listen to my inner voice as evidenced by the titles of my last two threads. His statements above are just a recent example of an ongoing reason that it is so important for me to learn to trust my own voice.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
