Well perhaps I should explain to him how this works. See, he left for San Diego today for 10 days. We would have had sex last night and were headed in that direction pretty much all evening. UNTIL we had this discussion. Warm feelings-gone. Sexual feelings-gone. So, guess who didn't get any last night?
Me.
I guarantee you there is no way in he11
Poor hell. It's just an old English word basically meaning "hole". In olden days, people would store vegetables in a hole in the ground, and they'd say that their "potatos were in hell" for example. Nowadays, it's derived negative associations via religion, and may offend some even when used in a discussion of sex and swinging. Poor, poor, misunderstood hell.
But isn't him talking about a viable emotional connection an indication that he's saying it would/could be about more than just sex?
I guess so. Obviously he doesn't think it equates to the degree of an A. But people do have double scales for measuring themselves and others, don't they?