Learning to trust myself II

[heatherg]

Tambo~

Bringing a third person into the bedroom only works if the marriage has a strong foundation

Yeah, H and I certainly don't have the necessary foundation to even be having the discussion, do we??? That much is obvious, lol.

What ever your style is.....don't feed the fantasy.

Point taken.

Don't let him use it as a tool you "maybe work things out". It is a trap.

Yeah, that is a trap I would spot a mile away. I agree and I'd like to think I'd never be that stupid.

Now...just because I know all this...doesn't necessaraily mean I've been there..................right.

What does that mean, lol? Can't tell if that was a genuine statement or not.