I just re-read my post and the fire in my words reminded my of my coaching session with Chuck. I told him that I was particularly touchy to being controlled by my H because I am a spunky girl and I don't want to lose that. I'm not exactly sure what he meant but he said something like 'I don't think that's going to happen. I can tell just by talking to you that you've got a lot of spunk'. I hope that's a good thing, lol.....
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."