Jabez~ Thanks for your suggestions. I will check out the links you gave me when I get back from vacation and have a little more time. You mentioned my tone of voice when I speak. My words to H may be rational, but I know my tone of voice is typically aggressive/very defensive. This is something I continually struggle with. It's like trying to change the way I walk.....as soon as I'm not actively thinking about it, which is often, I slip right back into the way I've always been.
"Happiness is a butterfly, which, when pursued, is always just beyond your grasp, but which, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you."
