Learning to trust myself II

[Burgbud]

You know, my fear in this though is that he'll like things this way.

It will be a double-edged sword for him. He'll like that you're happy with less effort from him. I'd guess the tension in your house will be lower and he'll like that. He may even be a little afraid to interact with you for fear of rocking the boat.

But the fact that you're happy with less effort from him will also work on his insecurities. How will he handle that? Will your independent happiness be threatening? Hopefully you'll be able to bring him around to the idea that he can join you in the new place where you are, but that you won't be joining him if he wants to go back to the place you were.

Today's the day! I'm sending you massive positive vibes.