I'm back on this site, despite my earlier concern that I was becoming obsessed and needed a break. Well, I'm on another break at work, and I had a compulsion to get back on and see what scenarios are playing out. It's amazing that the reactions to our individual nighmtmares do not seem gender specific. Man and woman share equal pain and confusion over the the current situation. Like Newton said, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. For everyone of us that wants to make things work, there is a S that is being repelled by our efforts. We can all carry on and improve ourselves and we can all bouy each other up. It's amazing the people who can come to this site enduring their own bit of hell and sometimes acting irrationally can be so lucid about dispensing sanity saving advice. The objectivity is overwhelming when it's somebody elses life you are examining, as opposed to sorting out your own mess. Go figure! my sitch
