Outstanding advice! Thank you! The funny thing is again from what I know of this guy, having shared a few beers with him on several occasions, he is not very fond of people in general, doesn't have great relationships with women, would rather share his life with a number of dogs, has treated my W's assistant like crap(who worked part time for him), and is experiencing difficulty dealing with his mother's terminal illness, a woman that has become one of my wife's best friends. I almost see this as her opportunity to minister to her by taking care of her son. Long before any of this happened, my W and her assistant commented on what an a$$ he was and how gross he was. He was just another guy to have a beer with after work. He's not wealthy or any of the "better than" scenarios, but you are right he is just another person that is not me. But knowing or rather suspecting all of this, I'm joining a health club tomorrow and going to spend my extra time making my body healthy, and wait for my books to be delivered to get my mind right. In the meantime, I'm cool. I think you made me realize what I knew I should do, but didn't exactly know why. You nailed it, thanks!
