If I could figure out how to insert links you could see my sitch. Anyhow, when my WAW left, she said that she was a person who needed somebody who loved her and could show her affection and that she no longer wanted that from me. She claims there is nobody else and I would have believed that however I have my suspicions. There is a guy that she knows that she claims is a friend that has helped her in relocating the business she started up. She considers him a mentor. Perhaps I should point out her business is a Doggy Daycare and he is a Groomer/Trainer that has assisted her with a dog rescue as part of an organization that she is part of. She doesn't really have too many opportunities to spend time with him as our son is with her most of the times when she is not working. I know this guy from various social functions and have no animosity towards him, however, I don't know him well enough to know if he is low enough to move in on another man's wife even though we are separated. I don't think she has crossed the line at this point, but I gather from my sister-in-law that she does have a certain fascination with him and she may be curious to explore it. This doesn't surprise me as she has always had a sort of hero worship for any of her advisers while working on her Masters and PhD, both men and women of various backgrounds. I did express my disappointment when I saw him at her apartment and confronted her on it explaining it was inappropriate, but of course, that only made her more frustrated with me. What do I do? I know him well enough to approach him....should I? I must add that I am not angry at this point.
