Still trying....

[DonH]

V - I don't post to all too many people, now before I get jumped by somebody for saying that you should feel honored that I post on your thread, that is not at all my point. I just have a very good sense and feel almost drawn or compelled to post on your thread. I am a very grounded base-line person so I don't often go on "being drawn", etc. My only intent even has been to challange you and in doing so hopefully be one or two percent of helping you put it all together. There has never been any doubt in my mind - and hopefully not yours - who's side I'm on here and it certainly is not your H. But I can't hardly come out suggesting that you continue to work on your M and hang in there if I'm calling your H a dope or any of a hundred other nasty terms I could most certainly think of, now can I. If I am on any side at all, it's on the side of M espeically with three children involved. I just think that sometimes I see stones left unturned or DB techniques that have gone a bit askew and feel compelled to comment on them. It seems as though that is how you are taking it and balancing it with the rest of the comments here. I have been very tough on you but I have never meant to hurt you or set you back in anyway. So I guess as long as you and I understand that, we don't have a problem. You'll just have to tell big brother that it's okay, you're taking care of yourself just fine. Hang in there dear (I thought I'd give honey a rest for a bit and didn't think babe was appropriate). I am just such a smart a** but hey that is me. If you'd like to read something sort of interesting and very mildly ironic, I just expalined much of this about myself on my thread. I just talked about how when people first meet me they often do not like me. It's later that they think I'm a pretty cool guy and really grow to like me - which is the exact oposite of my WAW. I wrote this like six hours prior to our little intereaction here. It's almost like I could write it now though to explain what has just gone on. If you or anyone else is interested, I'll try to copy the link here. You can even take me to task all you want - and I don't even have a big sister to help fend you off.

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