Quote: For what's it's worth, you are starting to win me over with who I like better in your relationship between you and H.
Forgive me Don, but that might be (IMO) the most assinine and insensitive comment I've seen. Do you mean to tell me that before this you actually took Val's husband's side in this? Don, I'm sure you mean well (?) but really... Far be it for me to speak for her but I bet Val is so happy that she's starting to "win you over".
Valerie, it is really none of my business whether you give him another chance or tell him to pound sand. I'm sorry, I just cringe when I read things like this. Since you are getting opinions posted here, I'll give mine then I'll shut up:
A) You've put up with so much sh*t over the past many months.
B) For better or worse, you are more patient than anyone I've seen out here.
C) Simply said: You deserve better.
Sorry for getting a little vocal this evening but maybe because it is Halloween, it is appropriate that comments like that scare me...