I wasn't sure if I had mentioned it or not, but H went to Oregon for the weekend to help out a former co-worker with a home and garden show. He made $550 for two days and was reimbursed for his travelling expenses, so that's pretty good.
Anyway, he is supposed to have the kids this weekend, but he might work another home show, so he was asking if he can have them tomorrow through the rest of the week. If he doesn't end up working the weekend, he'll still take them for that time, too. So I told him that was fine with me. I will have S1 for a few hours during the day and pick the other two up from school, then H will get them after his class every evening.
After discussing that, we pleasantly chatted for a bit longer then he said he was going to get some sleep before he went to his class. He usually goes to the early one, but since he was driving all night, he decided he should go to the night class. Then H said, "Can I say something without you taking it the wrong way?"....???....I said sure. H said, "It's times like this when I just want to move back home...I'm so tired from driving all morning, and all I want to do is sleep at home...The way I feel right now...it's like I have no energy, so I definitely wouldn't have the energy to fight with you......but I know if I moved back in right away, we'd probably get into it after a day or two...It'd be a mistake." I just said, "You're right. It would."
Ok, I just didn't get the point of repeating what we had already talked about. I already told him that it would not be a good idea for him to move back in immediately if we decided to reconcile.
But anyway, that was basically it. We didn't talk about anything else. Oh, H asked about Halloween....what were the arrangements for taking the kids out trick-or-treating....I hadn't thought about it really. I was planning on taking them out myself, but I didn't want to say that to him....I don't know why....so I told him we'd just play it by ear, and he said ok.
Thanks for listening.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
