Do you know how MWD has us make a list of goals and then goes over the list in the book by showing us how we might not be listing things like we should? Well... I see two huge themes in your list - Fear and a lack of trust. In fact, most of your items are based in a fear of this or that. Is fear really a good reason either not to, or to do something? We are all afraid of this or that but I don't think that fear should stop us from trying. Think of all of the things that you have done that you would not have if you would have let fear hold you back. On top of that, I think if you try, you can find more reasons to work and give it another chance. Part of me wonders if this was not a self fullfilling list in that you went into it thinking you'd have more cons than pros and of course that's how it came out. And if we are going to list fears, should not the fear of giving up on something that might actually have worked be in there?
So, I think you need to take a second look at this and really limit the fear issues or just list it once as all inclusive - FEAR. Yes you have fear but should that stop you?
Keep at it. I'm sure version two will be clearer for you.
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