Still trying....

[DonH]

Thanks for taking the time to respond to me. Did your response make any sense? You bet it did. In fact, I think this one connected more with me than many of your other posts. So much so that I have a different new current thought, and that is, I wonder if you dont need some time away from him with little or no contact. I think you are right to be unsure about many of these things. I think you are right to be confused. One way or another the best thing you can do is work through that confusion so you are making the best decision - period. Not the best decision you can at this time. Do the two make sense? There seem to be so many uncertainties and unknowns here. Somehow, though, some way, you need to work through it for the final right answer. Maybe what your posts are saying to me is not really that you are not done, but that you are not sure. You may be done, but your're not sure. You may not be done, but you're not sure. There may be hope - they may not be hope - YOU JUST ARE NOT SURE. I'll bet we are going to totally agree on this. And to me that means above all that you have to get sure before you get D. I have been so wishy washy and in so much termoil in my life in the past two weeks that I really should not be making suggestions to anyone at this point, but still somehow, the "gut" reactions are really there in your sitch and they hit me. I'm not sure why that is and like I said I may have been close but off a bit on the last comments. Done or not done? The answer is you're not sure. That means taking whatever steps to work through that. I do agree with the others, you are an inspiration to many other here - including me. Good luck.