Well JV, I'm back - the questioning, devils advocate, pro M trouble maker. Are you sure you're done? Are you sure that if you didn't give it more time that your M could be all that you want it to be? As I read your last post, it certainly seems to me like there is still at least a glimmer of hope here - both for H and for your M. He may not follow through and he may backslide. I have no idea. I don't know how many times you've been down this road with him, but it just seems to me like he may finally be getting it. He may finally be willing to put in the work to make your M a success. Certainly that would be the best for the boys. Hell it mighth even be the best for you in the long run. I won't go into quoting all of the lines from DR or DB but something tells me there could still be a chance here and I'd hate to see it go to waste - for everyone involved. I know I've taken you to task on this before and the last thing you need is someone like me screwing up what may be your last chance for real happniess (okay so I am quoting the books) but I just feel your thread and sitch calling for these comments. It may take a huge amount of work, it may take years to work out. But something tells me it just isn't done yet. Am I wrong?
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
