Hehehehe ! Dammit...it's that whole "mystery" thing I was taught here !
Ok, ok...I'll give it away with this EASY hint -- I'll move over to "Hopefulness" (because TBH, "Divorced..." just sounds TOO depressing to me -- sorry, no offense to anyone), and my name starts with a "V" and rhymes with 'celery' !
JV (oops! I guess I better stop that !)
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown