Well...H and I are getting together tomorrow morning to hopefully come to an agreement on the splitting of assets, blah blah blah.
I'm hoping we can do this...together...without it turning ugly...but I could already hear "it" in his voice when we talked just a little about it earlier this afternoon. "It" was, "...Why? YOU don't have to worry about a thing...YOU'RE going to be taken care of...".........oh my goodness........I really hope I can get through this without feeling like I have to be on the defensive with H....which I'm sure that's probably how he might feel....like I'm out to get him and take him for all he has, and that is just so untrue and so unfair.
H said to just tell him what I want and he will give it to me....yeah right....he SAYS that now but wait until we really start talking about child support, alimony, what's going to be done about the house, the truck,......ugh......and I just know that when the time comes to give up my half of our money....uh oh .
(SIGH).....too many things are running around in my head right now. Hopefully I'm making this out to be worse than what it actually will be .
Anyway, thank you all for always being there to listen and for all your terrific support. I'm going to move from "Piecing"....this isn't the place for me to be anymore, but I'm not sure where to go . "Divorced..."? Nah, maybe "Hopefulness" to mark the beginning of this new journey in my life. I will also change my screen name...because I am no longer "JVJKB"...those 5 initials represent who I thought I was for a looong time.....but I am not that person anymore....I am ME....I am.....
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"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
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