Quote: It sounds like you should have been the one to leave and not him and that you should never have even started to try to win him back but it took changes in you to be able to figure that out.
Ok...I'm glad you put that last part in there because the beginning of that sentence was starting to irk me a little . I'm sorry -- that's just the part of me that feels like I'm being blamed for something.
Yes, it definitely has taken changes in me to be able to see the light. Well....I knew it wasn't right for a very long time, but as I said, I was just too afraid to make the smart move. I always felt I was NEEDING H rather than WANTING him.
Quote: I just wanted to bring forth my feelings with regard to the whole DBing process and what it means and be sure that none of us changes it to fit what we want it to be rather than what it really is.
I hear you, DonH, and let me just say that I am in NO way trying to alter the DBing process. I am not saying, "Hey, everyone! Look at how strong I've become! This is exactly how DBing should be done!" -- NO, NOT AT ALL.
I may not be the "ideal DBer", but what's most important here is that I have finally found my way to MY happiness.
JV
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination."
Last edited by JVJKB; 08/30/0504:38 PM.
Valerie
"I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination." ~ author unknown
. I'm sorry -- that's just the part of me that feels like I'm being blamed for something.
